Never assume your fiance is actually doing that list of things you gave him to do!
- Now ladies, listen up! This is of the utmost importance, and its a mistake I have already made...if you gave your fiance a list of things to do over a month ago.... and they said 'I'll get right on it honey', do not assume its taken care of at all!!! Here are some tips I have found to work in making sure the list is accomplished:
1. Assume daily that he has actually forgotten the list exists... therefore, remind him DAILY that the list does infact exist!
2. If he has a specific task (ie. Find a marquee to hire) - rather than asking...'have you found a marquee yet?' instead approach it like 'So where did you manage to find a marquee? Is it nice? How much was it? - It will make him realise that you assume he already has done it...meaning that..IT SHOULD BE DONE BY NOW!
3. Leave nothing to chance.... Have a copy of his list...and make sure that you at least have some idea of what you are going to do if he just doesnt get round to doing it!!!
Bottom line - We love our men, but they cannot be trusted with 'to do' lists!
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